How to Attract More Girls Attention While in College – Advice for Guys

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Guys, you will agree with me that college is the best place to pick up a date: At this stage, your agenda will be the same as other college mates. Girls will want to attract more boys while boys will also want to attract more girls. It is a natural thing–so don’t feel shy reading this post. However, to attract the opposite sex’s attention might not come cheap and easy–follow the steps below.

  • Always be yourself: Girls are more attracted to confident dudes. Always respect yourself and those around you. Don’t force a character you don’t have–because later on it will be discovered that you’re covering up the real you. Be kind and friendly to fellow guys and also do the same to girls. Avoid a display of bad morals and values just to be known by everyone at the college. Being someone else is a lot of hard work.
  • Change all the bad things about yourself: Sounds like a lot of work but take it one day at a time. Start by making a full list of bad things you would like to change about yourself. Ask very close friends of bad things they know about you. Make a plan on how to become a better person – slowly you will see both dudes & girls getting attracted to you. Let us take a small example: If you have been too critical of others, try to be less critical, always look at the positive side of people around you – doing this will make people feel comfortable when dealing with you.
  • Remind yourself on how great you’re: Trust me, very few people will tell you how great you’re, and they also don’t want you to blow your own trumpet. But I have discovered that knowing the good side of yourself boosts your self-confidence. It makes you fall in love with yourself. So make a list of all the good things about you and go through that list once in a while so that you stay on track. Being self-motivated will make you more attractive to the opposite sex.
  • Dress to impress: Always dress according to the image you want to portray. Girls are attracted to smart guys – but don’t wear suits to school – girls are not into guys with suits, this is a stage of having fun so opt for casual styles. However, wear clothes that fit you very well and match colors accordingly. You can check out various lookbooks for men – these have trendy fashion suggestions that you can follow or copy. Know when to wear what and how to wear it. You can as well spice up your scent with a cool perfume.
  • Depict a friendly attitude: Your primary goal is to be as attractive as possible – so putting on a smile and greeting classmates ”be it boys/girls” will make you an amiable guy to everyone around you. Be ready to offer help to classmates and collegemates without the need for reward/payment. Having this type of positive attitude and care for others will make you famous and lovable.
  • Accept those who are different from you: College environment is made up different characters – all these students come from unique backgrounds so don’t expect them to behave or see things like you. Don’t shy away from those who are entirely different from you, but instead be curious about them. Invite them to gatherings so that you get to know them better. Doing this will increase on your chances of getting recognized by almost everyone at college/win you more female & male friends.
  • Be Well Groomed: Now that you have worked on your attitude towards others, created a warm environment for classmates and college-mates around you. It is time you pay attention to your body and well being. Being well groomed will even attract those hard-to-convince girls who feel so proud to fall for any guy. Go to the gym and build those muscles (girls love muscles), shave off that bushy beard with a good electric shaver, pimp your natural scent with a nice perfume, cut off your nails, use teeth whitening toothpaste – this will improve on your smile, shave your armpits & private parts because these can generate bad smell and lastly, don’t forget to brush/clean your tongue – it is the cause of bad breath.
  • Engage in Sports: Either be part of the game or join the support team. Getting involved in sports activities will increase your chances of getting noticed. If at all you become part of the team – girls will fight for you.
  • Host a Party: Okay, that is a cool thing to do, but, it will cost you some money. College girls love parties – so if you host one, you will have more than what you need. You will be one of the coolest guys on the campus. Provide lots of drinks, music, and snacks at the party. Invite both dudes and girls.
  • Get a nice car: This is optional because not everyone in college can afford a car. But if you have some money on you – go get a nice affordable car. This will set you apart from the rest of the guys at the campus thus win you more girls.
  • Be a Winner in Academics: Yes, you went to college to succeed in academics, not girls. But when you get academics right, girls come by themselves. Help them solve difficult equations and challenges.
  • Become a leader: They say that politics is dirty but if played well it can get you lots of followers. Once you become a leader, everyone will know you at the campus – girls get attracted to men with power. However, don’t misuse your powers.

 


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